A genesis of “MENJ”
“What’s in a name?”, one might ask? For a Muslim, names mean a lot in reflecting a character of a person. I’ve been meaning to write for some time a brief breakdown of the meaning of my own name, “Mohd Elfie Nieshaem” (excluding my dad’s), as it was only recently (3 - 4 years ago) that I came to know the actual meaning of my name, which was a combination of choices by both my parents.
[Originally my dad wanted to name me “Mohd Nieshaem” at my birth, but my mom wanted to call me “Elfie Nieshaem”. Conflict resolved, eh? :)]
So here we go…the meaning of the phrases (as I came to know of and put together the pieces in later years), are as follows:
Mohd: A Malaynised simplification (dare I say corruption?) of the name “Muhammad”. We all know that “Muhammad” means “one worthy of praise” and that my namesake is the Prophet Muhammad (P), the Seal of the Prophets and of whom Allah says, “Wa-ma arsal-na ka-illa rahmatan-lil `aalameen” We have not sent thee [O Muhammad] except as a Mercy for all the worlds”. Needs no further elaboration
Elfie: Now this is a bit complicated. I have come to understand that this is a corruption of the Arabic alfun, which means “One Thousand”. Don’t ask me why my birth certificate says “Elfie” instead of “Alfun” as it should be.
Nieshaem: I have yet to find any corresponding meaning to it in Arabic, or any word that may have been corrupted from the Arabic into “Nieshaem”. The last part of the syllable corresponds to the Arabic shams, which means “sun”. But I am stretching things too far here. So let’s just ignore this part of my name.
Conclusion: If we take the first two phrases of my name, we will get “One Who is Worthy of Praise, One Thousand”. Hmmm….I am not sure whether this is a good or a bad thing
Speaking about names, however, I do hope that when I do get married in the far, far future and have a first-born son, I hope to name him “Mu`awiyah”, after the Caliph Mu`awiyah ibn Abi Sufyan who was the Companion of the Prophet(P) and the founder of the Ummayad Dynasty who spread Islam throughout the world. Then my kunya will be “Abu Mu`awiyah”, which is certainly what I hope for. Insha’allah, my dream will come true. What if it is a girl, you may ask? I think I should leave that to my wife to decide. LOL!